Lowered expectations can be a good thing, even if they are frustrating when I step back and allow myself to dream.

It reminds me of the Saturday Night Live skit on low expectations. How they are the key to a happy life. With low expectations:Curt Sunshine wrote: ↑28 Sep 2018, 16:02People like to speculate. I don't, since it too often leads to disappointment. If changes happen, great; I can celebrate the unexpected. If not, okay; I won't be disappointed.
Lowered expectations can be a good thing, even if they are frustrating when I step back and allow myself to dream.![]()
It actually wouldn't surprise me if Nelson rolled out some new policy changes and/or "revelations" that would be especially hard for many Church members to accept. Just look at what he has already done so far. This is the same guy that publicly doubled down on the November policy, abandoned scouts, combined the high priests and Elders quorums, changed home/visiting teaching to "ministering" and publicly discouraged the use of Mormon and LDS after the recent "I'm a Mormon" advertising campaign and so many Church websites already used these terms.SilentDawning wrote: ↑28 Sep 2018, 08:47I don't see this happening on a large scale. The church is VERY protective of its membership. They like to see the membership numbers growth rate increasing just like large companies like to see their stock price growing. I don't think there will ever be policies meant to purge us, although I do think we have seen some people leave voluntarily over the November policy. If there are massive exodii, it would be a result of the leaders being out of touch with the membership.nibbler wrote: 8) An extension to #7. Many will apostatize because of what will be said, they will be hitting the theme of follow the prophet, choose you this day whom ye will serve, because whatever is said will test you. Aside from hitting the theme of follow the prophet real hard (it is general conference after all ) I don't see this happening.
If it was intentional, and announced that way, it would be evidence this whole thing is more true than I figured. Organizational interests drive the bus in our religion. If you accept the premise that no one really knows when the second coming will happen, I can't see leaders enacting policies that would cause major bloodletting. No way.
My wife brought up the two hour block rumors yesterday. She said, "I don't see how it could possibly work. I mean, the first half hour of relief society is taken up just by announcements!"DevilsAdvocate wrote: ↑01 Oct 2018, 07:21As far as the two hour block rumor I think it has gotten to the point where now many Church members will be disappointed if it doesn't happen.
That's a regular PH opening exercises thing too. But...
With the exception of the November policy, I don't think these changes will tick off people. They are all changes that people seemed to embrace. A lot of people thought Scouts was a racket when it comes to fees etcetera. I don't know if he unilaterally makes these kinds of decisions without thought for the membership, but I know growth in membership and activation/retention is a huge issue for them. I honestly don't think they will enact policies that cause a bloodletting as a result -- if it happens, it will be due to poor judgment.DevilsAdvocate wrote: ↑01 Oct 2018, 07:21It actually wouldn't surprise me if Nelson rolled out some new policy changes and/or "revelations" that would be especially hard for many Church members to accept. Just look at what he has already done so far. This is the same guy that publicly doubled down on the November policy, abandoned scouts, combined the high priests and Elders quorums, changed home/visiting teaching to "ministering" and publicly discouraged the use of Mormon and LDS after the recent "I'm a Mormon" advertising campaign and so many Church websites already used these terms.SilentDawning wrote: ↑28 Sep 2018, 08:47I don't see this happening on a large scale. The church is VERY protective of its membership. They like to see the membership numbers growth rate increasing just like large companies like to see their stock price growing. I don't think there will ever be policies meant to purge us, although I do think we have seen some people leave voluntarily over the November policy. If there are massive exodii, it would be a result of the leaders being out of touch with the membership.nibbler wrote: 8) An extension to #7. Many will apostatize because of what will be said, they will be hitting the theme of follow the prophet, choose you this day whom ye will serve, because whatever is said will test you. Aside from hitting the theme of follow the prophet real hard (it is general conference after all ) I don't see this happening.
If it was intentional, and announced that way, it would be evidence this whole thing is more true than I figured. Organizational interests drive the bus in our religion. If you accept the premise that no one really knows when the second coming will happen, I can't see leaders enacting policies that would cause major bloodletting. No way.
Basically it looks like if Nelson thinks something is a good idea for whatever reasons then he is typically going to just go ahead and do it without worrying much if at all about how many members will react to it, all the implications and possible unintended side effects of it, etc. To me there is no question Nelson is capable of making major negative or difficult changes and the more interesting question is what kind of changes could be seriously under consideration that could actually cause very many Church members to leave? As far as the two hour block rumor I think it has gotten to the point where now many Church members will be disappointed if it doesn't happen.
Lol. Been there, done that!
I would love that to happen for the reason you stated. It seems so strange to say, "Yes, Brother Jones, I see that you have faith, wish to follow Jesus and join His Church. But I notice that your house smells like coffee, so until you can stop that, you are not qualified to be baptized as a disciple of our Lord." It would make sense to move to a model of being OK with imperfectness. I mean, if a member has a cup of coffee, do we excommunicate them?nibbler wrote: ↑01 Oct 2018, 08:07Relaxing WoW requirements. I got to thinking (dangerous), during the mission years I taught a lot of people that would have been baptized if not for a coffee or smoking habit. I wonder whether the church would relax WoW requirements (even if only in order to be baptized, you'd still have to comply for the temple) so they could experience a greater influx of converts.
Interestingly, one thing I have noticed since the implementation of ministering is that I no longer hear the "get out and do your ministering" thing, at least in my own ward. I did hear it in a ward I was visiting recently.nibbler wrote: ↑01 Oct 2018, 08:07
3) A lot of time is spent on announcements that are always the same. Does the EQP have any announcements? Of course he does. He's going to get up and remind people to do their ministering teaching. Yup, there he goes. Does the deacon's quorum president have any announcements? Nope, says he hasn't got anything. No wait, the young men's president reminded him of the camp out they had. Turns out the camp out was "good." Does anyone else have any announcements? Going once... going twice... no. Now we'll run out the rest of the clock reading from a talk.![]()
I've heard that no one in the Church has ever had official Church disciplinary action taken against them for violating the Word of Wisdom (not counting missionaries, or those in leadership). The worst that can happen is losing a TR, the bishop saying you can't take the sacrament, and possibly assigning you to a new calling. On the levels of sin, it's pretty low.On Own Now wrote: ↑01 Oct 2018, 09:05I would love that to happen for the reason you stated. It seems so strange to say, "Yes, Brother Jones, I see that you have faith, wish to follow Jesus and join His Church. But I notice that your house smells like coffee, so until you can stop that, you are not qualified to be baptized as a disciple of our Lord." It would make sense to move to a model of being OK with imperfectness. I mean, if a member has a cup of coffee, do we excommunicate them?nibbler wrote: ↑01 Oct 2018, 08:07Relaxing WoW requirements. I got to thinking (dangerous), during the mission years I taught a lot of people that would have been baptized if not for a coffee or smoking habit. I wonder whether the church would relax WoW requirements (even if only in order to be baptized, you'd still have to comply for the temple) so they could experience a greater influx of converts.