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by Old-Timer
08 Jun 2025, 16:15
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: LDS LGBTQ+ Suicide Rates
Replies: 6
Views: 125

Re: LDS LGBTQ+ Suicide Rates

I would have to dive into the actual survey details, but my initial reaction is that the differences between the groups that do not include identified atheists/agnostics is statistically insignificant - and that the suicide rate for teenagers in any category tends to be higher when there is not a “h...
by Old-Timer
08 Jun 2025, 16:01
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Help with a Sacrament Talk
Replies: 13
Views: 122

Re: Help with a Sacrament Talk

I personally would talk about the path Jesus walked in his life and how we can work intentionally to walk that same path. (do what he did in our own circles and circumstances) As the primary song says, “I’m trying to be like Jesus. I’m following in his way. I’m trying to love as he did in all that I...
by Old-Timer
08 Jun 2025, 15:57
Forum: Spiritual Stuff
Topic: Interacting with investigators
Replies: 3
Views: 90

Re: Interacting with investigators

We have given visitors and new members rides for a long time. When asked questions, I give the standard, stereotypical answers as “the teachings of the church for all the members” and then add my own view of “the higher, Gospel view”. (kind of like the minimum expectation of a general concept for th...
by Old-Timer
30 May 2025, 10:11
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Deferal to men as priesthood/authority figures
Replies: 4
Views: 97

Re: Deferal to men as priesthood/authority figures

What Minyan Man said, plus: I think there is an assumption that men understand "men things" and women understand "women things" - and that men understand priesthood ordination because they have been ordained. I think that makes your point to a degree (by identifying areas and top...
by Old-Timer
29 May 2025, 17:42
Forum: Book & Media Reviews
Topic: LDS Daily - 5 Crucial Questions
Replies: 8
Views: 233

Re: LDS Daily - 5 Crucial Questions

I think most people leave / disengage / become less actively involved for a very simple, common reason: For some reason(s), they no longer feel like they fit/belong enough to cause them to stay / remain actively involved. I know that might seem too simplistic for many people, but I really do think i...
by Old-Timer
24 May 2025, 19:22
Forum: Spiritual Stuff
Topic: Spiritual Challenges
Replies: 13
Views: 1563

Re: Spiritual Challenges

The vast majority of bishops and branch presidents I know understand most active members, at least, much better than just the temple recommend questions.

I also know lots who are far more gracious in their view of temple worthiness now than I did as a younger member.
by Old-Timer
24 May 2025, 19:19
Forum: Spiritual Stuff
Topic: Grace & Atonement
Replies: 9
Views: 402

Re: Grace & Atonement

Our actual doctrine of eternal progression, more and more GC talks, and the latest temple endowment versions are full of grace.

It is my own favorite part of the recent evolution in the Church.
by Old-Timer
20 May 2025, 08:45
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: 15 New Hymns for the Hymn Book
Replies: 11
Views: 2666

Re: 15 New Hymns for the Hymn Book

That is my instinct.
by Old-Timer
12 May 2025, 16:24
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Beards
Replies: 8
Views: 3593

Re: Beards

I have seen beards on temple workers (and some chin hair on some sisters 😃). I also know multiple bishopric counselors, EQ Presidents, and high councilors who now have beards.

Things are changing, but we aren’t where I would like to be yet.
by Old-Timer
12 May 2025, 16:20
Forum: Spiritual Stuff
Topic: on grace
Replies: 9
Views: 5213

Re: on grace

The leadership talks a LOT more about grace now.

Elder Kearon is focused on that concept more openly and explicitly than any apostle in my lifetime, I think - even more than Elder Wirthlin was. I am sure it is his own nature, but I’m sure Elder Uchtdorf was an inspiration for him in that regard.