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by Old-Timer
07 Sep 2024, 22:31
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Church handbook changes and LGBTQIA+
Replies: 7
Views: 838

Re: Church handbook changes and LGBTQIA+

In our ward, one young adult male often has passed the sacrament in jeans, a t-shirt, white tube socks, and plastic sandals. It is what he owns, and there no official white-shirt and tie requirement. I also served in a ward once where 70% of the members (mostly first-generation immigrants) were 16-y...
by Old-Timer
02 Sep 2024, 19:17
Forum: Support
Topic: You know what tomorrow is ...
Replies: 4
Views: 620

Re: You know what tomorrow is ...

Yes, I attend. Yes, I share my testimony occasionally. I focus on things I believe and for which I am grateful. I rarely use the word “know”. I doubt anyone notices that, and nobody ever has mentioned it. I get to be part of my tribe and frame things that are important to me in authentic ways that I...
by Old-Timer
30 Aug 2024, 14:08
Forum: Support
Topic: Have any of you gone back and made it work?
Replies: 20
Views: 1319

Re: Have any of you gone back and made it work?

I have family on both sides of the fence. I am fully active and involved. I separate things into “culture” and “gospel”. I absolutely love my own view of the uniquely Mormon view of the Gospel, and I deal with where culture is apart from the Gospel. I hope for continued cultural changes toward the G...
by Old-Timer
25 Aug 2024, 19:05
Forum: Support
Topic: Have any of you gone back and made it work?
Replies: 20
Views: 1319

Re: Have any of you gone back and made it work?

The short version: I never have left, but I continue on my own terms.

That is a constant balancing act, and it helps a lot that I know how to speak fluent Mormon-ese.
by Old-Timer
25 Aug 2024, 18:56
Forum: Spiritual Stuff
Topic: My Mother Died -- the Celebration of Life -- And yours?
Replies: 16
Views: 1938

Re: My Mother Died -- the Celebration of Life -- And yours?

Sorry for your loss, my friend.

For me, whatever my wife wants. My input: A true celebration of my life with her, our kids, and my friends. No sermon; just uplifting memories - and expressions of hope in reunion.
by Old-Timer
18 Aug 2024, 20:51
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: I have a question...
Replies: 21
Views: 3588

Re: I have a question...

It is what it will be.

We never have “advertised” in any way, and we won’t. If people need us and find us while we still have active admins, this site will continue; if not, the archived posts and conversations will remain available. Our legacy will live on.

I have peace with that.
by Old-Timer
13 Aug 2024, 17:24
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: God's Willingness To Give additional Testimony
Replies: 11
Views: 1805

Re: God's Willingness To Give additional Testimony

It is interesting that Jesus didn’t emphasize spiritual experiences much; rather, he emphasized love expressed in action.
by Old-Timer
13 Aug 2024, 17:22
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: I don't get the purpose of faith in religious-oriented things we can't see
Replies: 26
Views: 4353

Re: I don't get the purpose of faith in religious-oriented things we can't see

Yep, there is no certainty, since so many people are certain of different views, which means it all is based on faith.

Even atheists rely on faith, in a very real way, which makes faith perhaps THE most unique, important aspect of being human.
by Old-Timer
08 Aug 2024, 09:02
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: I don't get the purpose of faith in religious-oriented things we can't see
Replies: 26
Views: 4353

Re: I don't get the purpose of faith in religious-oriented things we can't see

DarkJedi explained my comment as well as I could have. 🙂

To return to the original post’s focus, I see faith as what motivates discovery and non-organic change (change that wouldn’t happen naturally).

It takes belief in the unseen to do the unseeable.