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by Roy
25 Nov 2025, 10:55
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Why I go to church...
Replies: 7
Views: 497

Re: Why I go to church...

MM, I'm sorry for what you and your wife are going through (getting old and all that comes with it). I have "visited" other Christian churches for a long time. I remember one pastor talking about creating an environment that people will want to be in even if they don't believe and then, ma...
by Roy
19 Nov 2025, 14:43
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Past Topics & Discussions
Replies: 5
Views: 292

Re: Past Topics & Discussions

I also find it interesting that Bill Reel was listed twice. First as a believer and advocate for a StayLDS path Introduction Section Topic: From Faith Crisis to Believer Posted by: DBMormon Replies: 81 Page: 16 and later as a more critical and antagonistic voice that the church saw fit to excommunic...
by Roy
19 Nov 2025, 13:14
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Past Topics & Discussions
Replies: 5
Views: 292

Re: Past Topics & Discussions

Polygamy indirectly teaches that a woman can be replaced in the relationship (usually by a younger woman), but that a man cannot as a "legal" variation Not nearly as frustrating as polygamy, however, I think it is worth noting that the man may also be replaced. One description of the cele...
by Roy
11 Nov 2025, 09:45
Forum: History and Doctrine Discussions
Topic: Um...self-stimulation okay in marriage?
Replies: 87
Views: 216365

Re: Um...self-stimulation okay in marriage?

There are very credible studies that have underscores that men with higher testosterone levels have more difficultly controlling sexual drive and are not as engaged with nurturing/parenting children (and have larger testicle size). They tend be rated by their wives as not being the best fathers. Pa...
by Roy
07 Nov 2025, 10:40
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: New apostle named
Replies: 3
Views: 269

Re: New apostle named

I'll allow it. ;)
by Roy
07 Nov 2025, 10:39
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The death of President Nelson
Replies: 19
Views: 3639

Re: The death of President Nelson

I'm thinking about the talk that Elder Oaks gave about women in the church serving by and with the authority of the priesthood. I'm hoping that Elder Oaks will be open to making things more equal in this department. Maybe women will still not be ordained but other things could easily change. I'm thi...
by Roy
03 Nov 2025, 11:05
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Building Janitorial Assignments
Replies: 21
Views: 12616

Re: Building Janitorial Assignments

Yeah, we have known him for more than a decade and he lives pretty close to us. Really nice guy, all things considered.

I think I am pretty used to LDS church leaders and members acting like I have a responsibility to support and serve the church. I just shrug it off.
by Roy
31 Oct 2025, 12:55
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Building Janitorial Assignments
Replies: 21
Views: 12616

Re: Building Janitorial Assignments

My wife and I have been receiving and ignoring the emails and texts about our "turn" cleaning the church building for about 6 months now. Unrelated, it was about 6 months ago that my wife suggested that we experiment with attending another church consistently (we had dabbled in visiting ot...
by Roy
29 Oct 2025, 09:44
Forum: History and Doctrine Discussions
Topic: Um...self-stimulation okay in marriage?
Replies: 87
Views: 216365

Re: Um...self-stimulation okay in marriage?

I have two questions for others 1. Your thoughts on functional masturbation not being sinful but other types of masturbation being sinful? 2. Is it God’s design for most men (not all) to have high levels of sexual arousal? (I know there are also some relationship where it is reversed) I'm of a scho...
by Roy
27 Oct 2025, 09:46
Forum: Support
Topic: Priesthood Ordination for my Son
Replies: 17
Views: 32356

Re: Priesthood Ordination for my Son

After reading MM's advice, I figured it certainly couldn't hurt to give DS the option.

An added variable is that he would miss a sports practice and a library event by going on this temple trip.

Roy Jr. has chosen to miss the temple trip and we responded by text declining the invite.