Yes, but only on the right side of the tray.hawkgrrrl wrote:I suggest we forego hands altogether and just bury our faces in the tray like bobbing for apples.
Taking the Sacrament with Your Right Hand
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I remember you Katzpur. I remember the interview with your bishop about gay marriage because our views on the subject match.
On topic, and as you point out in your OP, I wouldn't be shy about the general handbook not saying anything about a proper way to partake of the sacrament. It only talks about blessing and passing it, it does not describe anything specific about taking it.
On topic, and as you point out in your OP, I wouldn't be shy about the general handbook not saying anything about a proper way to partake of the sacrament. It only talks about blessing and passing it, it does not describe anything specific about taking it.
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Once there was a gentile...who came before Hillel. He said "Convert me on the condition that you teach me the whole Torah while I stand on one foot." Hillel converted him, saying: That which is despicable to you, do not do to your fellow, this is the whole Torah, and the rest is commentary, go and learn it."
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Also, the D&C says that it matters not what you eat or drink for the sacrament as long as you do it with an eye SINGLE TO HIS GLORY. If it doesn't matter what you eat or drink for the sacrament, when they heck does it matter which hand you use? Does not the "eye single to his glory" apply to the manner in which you take the sacrament?
This kind of thing bothers me. Once, in sacrament meeting, our Bishop made a Young Man say the prayer TEN TIMES. I was ready to stand up and walk out. At some point, you just accept the kid's attempt and move on for the good of the congregation and the experience.
This kind of thing bothers me. Once, in sacrament meeting, our Bishop made a Young Man say the prayer TEN TIMES. I was ready to stand up and walk out. At some point, you just accept the kid's attempt and move on for the good of the congregation and the experience.
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"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
A man asked Jesus "do all roads lead to you?" Jesus responds,”most roads don’t lead anywhere, but I will travel any road to find you.” Adapted from The Shack, William Young
"The wise man has the power" -- adapted from What A Fool Believes -- The Doobie Brothers
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Not to dismiss or disagree with anyone else's point in this thread, but just as another thought I have...some people really find value in EXACTNESS for special or sacred things to be important to them. It raises their commitment levels and efforts and spirituality. It is a conservative approach in not letting things become commonplace or lose meaning. I often hear it told in church with stories like steadying the ark, that even with good intentions...if the commandment was to not touch the ark, then you don't touch it even if common sense says the thing will fall and break.
While I have my differing views...I try to recognize that others in the church will find value in telling stories and taking things so serious, that they will even teach their children which hand to use, what color shirt to wear, how many ears to pierce, or how many hours to refrain from eating or drinking while fasting and which sodas are approved and which are sin. That is how they choose to teach others.
I think I am trying to work on how to handle myself so I don't belittle the way they choose to worship, even while I simply won't repeat some proclamation about the "right hand is right" because I don't believe it, or other exactness "good ideas or intentions".
Just my 2 cents on how I try to process it along with my connection to God. (and of course...I find it helpful to come here and vent about it...helps me get through it when I think others are being dingbats).
Are there other ways you can see make sense why others feel the "right hand" is so important that can help me understand them more? Or do you think they're just wrong?
While I have my differing views...I try to recognize that others in the church will find value in telling stories and taking things so serious, that they will even teach their children which hand to use, what color shirt to wear, how many ears to pierce, or how many hours to refrain from eating or drinking while fasting and which sodas are approved and which are sin. That is how they choose to teach others.
I think I am trying to work on how to handle myself so I don't belittle the way they choose to worship, even while I simply won't repeat some proclamation about the "right hand is right" because I don't believe it, or other exactness "good ideas or intentions".
There may be times to stand up to some comments and challenge them openly so incorrect "doctrine" is not perpetuated. Other times, it can be productive to simply ignore it when people (even leaders) share their opinions on what is important, because it often just goes away when it isn't practical.Articles of Faith 1:11 We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may.
Just my 2 cents on how I try to process it along with my connection to God. (and of course...I find it helpful to come here and vent about it...helps me get through it when I think others are being dingbats).
Are there other ways you can see make sense why others feel the "right hand" is so important that can help me understand them more? Or do you think they're just wrong?
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Obi-Wan: "Your father... was seduced by the dark side of the Force. He ceased to be Anakin Skywalker and became Darth Vader. When that happened, the good man who was your father was destroyed. So what I told you was true... from a certain point of view."
Luke: "A certain point of view?"
Obi-Wan: "Luke, you're going to find that many of the truths we cling to...depend greatly on our point of view."
Obi-Wan: "Your father... was seduced by the dark side of the Force. He ceased to be Anakin Skywalker and became Darth Vader. When that happened, the good man who was your father was destroyed. So what I told you was true... from a certain point of view."
Luke: "A certain point of view?"
Obi-Wan: "Luke, you're going to find that many of the truths we cling to...depend greatly on our point of view."
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I like the thought of using AOF 11 as a response. Thanks for suggesting that Heber. I will need to make sure I have it memorized well so I can recite it at a moment when I need it.
I would then add that this is not just for the church talking about non-members. I think the church would be a better place if everyone wasn't trying to fit themselves and everyone else into the same mold. I like this quote I just saw:
I would then add that this is not just for the church talking about non-members. I think the church would be a better place if everyone wasn't trying to fit themselves and everyone else into the same mold. I like this quote I just saw:
The trick to making more space is to say, "Please allow me more space" without having the other person feel like they are having to give up space.Mother Teresa wrote:If you judge people, you have no time to love them
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And yet, I think that they are having to give up space. In thinking about the overton window effect that Hawkgrrrl has mentioned - at any given time there is a range of what is taught and accepted. As we creep towards progress in some areas that makes the church less conservative and eternally unchanging in others. Generally this creep happens over generations and is hardly noticable to members. Still there are some that feel that the church is compromising its principles and become fundamentalists of some sort. I personally feel that the power of the internet as sped up this process.LookingHard wrote:The trick to making more space is to say, "Please allow me more space" without having the other person feel like they are having to give up space.
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“It is not the function of religion to answer all the questions about God’s moral government of the universe, but to give one courage, through faith, to go on in the face of questions he never finds the answer to in his present status.” TPC: Harold B. Lee 223
"I struggle now with establishing my faith that God may always be there, but may not always need to intervene" Heber13
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Just to add to what has been said in recent comments, I never argued with my father-in-law when he would say what he did. It just wasn't worth it, and I wasn't aware of him saying it in any setting where it would be damaging to others.
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Even if people view many things differently, the core Gospel principles (LOVE; belief in the unseen but hoped; self-reflective change; symbolic cleansing; striving to recognize the will of the divine; never giving up) are universal.
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Even if people view many things differently, the core Gospel principles (LOVE; belief in the unseen but hoped; self-reflective change; symbolic cleansing; striving to recognize the will of the divine; never giving up) are universal.
"For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong." H. L. Mencken
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Wow! What an excellent point!SilentDawning wrote:Also, the D&C says that it matters not what you eat or drink for the sacrament as long as you do it with an eye SINGLE TO HIS GLORY. If it doesn't matter what you eat or drink for the sacrament, when they heck does it matter which hand you use? Does not the "eye single to his glory" apply to the manner in which you take the sacrament?
That poor kid. Not trying to be judgmental, but honestly, what kind of a bishop would do that?This kind of thing bothers me. Once, in sacrament meeting, our Bishop made a Young Man say the prayer TEN TIMES. I was ready to stand up and walk out. At some point, you just accept the kid's attempt and move on for the good of the congregation and the experience.
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I won't answer that last question, as much as I'm tempted to
"It doesn't have to be about the Church (church) all the time!" -- SD
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
A man asked Jesus "do all roads lead to you?" Jesus responds,”most roads don’t lead anywhere, but I will travel any road to find you.” Adapted from The Shack, William Young
"The wise man has the power" -- adapted from What A Fool Believes -- The Doobie Brothers
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
A man asked Jesus "do all roads lead to you?" Jesus responds,”most roads don’t lead anywhere, but I will travel any road to find you.” Adapted from The Shack, William Young
"The wise man has the power" -- adapted from What A Fool Believes -- The Doobie Brothers
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A bishop that believes the words have to be spoken exactly as written otherwise the ordinance doesn't count. The bishop is probably more concerned with the congregation being able to participate in a legitimate sacrament than he is about the feelings of the kid trying to bless the sacrament. It really hinges on the faith of the bishop and I'm guessing many members are very letter of the law when it comes to the sacrament prayer.
It's a tough spot to be in. If the bishop were to let it slide he might have to face complaints from people in the congregation afterwards. I know I've certainly heard times where the prayer wasn't said correctly but it made it past the bishop. I wonder if someone that had the attitude of complaining noticed as well?
It's a tough spot to be in. If the bishop were to let it slide he might have to face complaints from people in the congregation afterwards. I know I've certainly heard times where the prayer wasn't said correctly but it made it past the bishop. I wonder if someone that had the attitude of complaining noticed as well?
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