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by Heber13
20 Nov 2017, 12:47
Forum: Support
Topic: Why? Do you have to hurt my Children too.
Replies: 13
Views: 327

Re: Why? Do you have to hurt my Children too.

I'm really sorry to hear that is happening. As her parents...your daughter needs your protection, guidance, and teaching how to handle these situations. She needs to know you have her back, even when others who should don't seem to be showing it. No matter what others do...you do what you need to to...
by Heber13
20 Nov 2017, 12:43
Forum: Support
Topic: How to be Genuine as a Non-literal believer...
Replies: 7
Views: 144

Re: How to be Genuine as a Non-literal believer...

I've said this here many times - being genuine or authentic doesn't mean one has to be totally and bluntly honest. I don't tell people I think are ugly and stupid that they're ugly and stupid. I likewise don't tell people who clearly don't understand a gospel principle such as grace as well as I do...
by Heber13
14 Nov 2017, 15:26
Forum: Spiritual Stuff
Topic: Amulek
Replies: 2
Views: 96

Re: Amulek

He would not have been the first wealthy and successful person that suddenly found their life to be missing something. I agree with Roy. And I think Alma is strengthened by Amulek's views. I like to view Amulek as being a reasonable and successful person, not needing to give up all things to go fol...
by Heber13
14 Nov 2017, 15:13
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: No other success can compensate for failure in the home
Replies: 19
Views: 366

Re: No other success can compensate for failure in the home

This is what I am currently working on. Figuring out what I believe, and what is important in my life right now :thumbup: I honestly feel like that is what God wants us to do, or he would have been a lot more specific in the scriptures. Those that get inspired write books, and share their views...a...
by Heber13
14 Nov 2017, 13:03
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: No other success can compensate for failure in the home
Replies: 19
Views: 366

Re: No other success can compensate for failure in the home

I was married in the temple. 4 children from that marriage. 23 years of marriage. Circumstances as they were, the toxic home situation was not good to keep the marriage together. My ex-wife filed divorce papers against me. She was mentally unstable. I'm remarried, my wife has 4 kids. Between us we h...
by Heber13
10 Nov 2017, 13:01
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Balanced Work Efforts
Replies: 6
Views: 205

Re: Balanced Work Efforts

AmyJ wrote:
10 Nov 2017, 12:47
Folding laundry is my personal favorite.
Doing the dishes is mine. Achieves several purposes, doesn't require brainpower, easy, and it is always there.
by Heber13
10 Nov 2017, 11:05
Forum: Support
Topic: SP - Bragging
Replies: 12
Views: 512

Re: SP - Bragging

There are good examples in the church of good leadership. I like how you notice this...call it out...and share it. It's good to stay balanced and notice the good and the bad in the church. I have not necessarily found people in the church to be so amazing that there is a difference between mormons a...
by Heber13
10 Nov 2017, 10:58
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Balanced Work Efforts
Replies: 6
Views: 205

Re: Balanced Work Efforts

I usually score ENFJ. Strong N as well. For me, moving helps reduce anxiety. I am sometimes not good at it. But trying to stay balanced is an effort. Work, but not overwork. Do good, but accept yourself as you are and your efforts. Relax, but don't get so lazy you do nothing. It seems there is a ten...
by Heber13
10 Nov 2017, 10:51
Forum: Support
Topic: Heartfelt thanks and (maybe) parting thoughts
Replies: 10
Views: 305

Re: Heartfelt thanks and (maybe) parting thoughts

You're a good soul, DT. Thanks for sharing and helping me learn from your posts and your thoughts on how you handled things you were facing. Thanks for all your contributions. These things we go through are survivable. You look like you're surviving and moving forward. There is always more to learn ...
by Heber13
08 Nov 2017, 15:15
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Sunday and Signs/Non Signs
Replies: 9
Views: 264

Re: Sunday and Signs/Non Signs

I wish I had written down what she said, because I could have said it word for word. When it was my turn, I paraphrased Peter "Where else would I go?" and shared that I was there because I believe there are teachings and experiences there for me still. it's kinda cool when you get that sense from p...