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by RagDollSallyUT
07 Nov 2015, 15:45
Forum: History and Doctrine Discussions
Topic: Same sex marriage considered apostasy
Replies: 191
Views: 10062

Re: Same sex marriage considered apostasy

I meant, primarily, fights over control of what children are taught. I didn't mean actual custody battles as my main concern. Oh I got that. And that's what I was talking about too. In heterosexual divorces there are many times a difference of desires over what the kids are taught, and whether or n...
by RagDollSallyUT
07 Nov 2015, 13:45
Forum: History and Doctrine Discussions
Topic: Same sex marriage considered apostasy
Replies: 191
Views: 10062

Re: Same sex marriage considered apostasy

I don't want the LDS Church to be involved in what amounts to custody battles with parents over minor children. I also don't want divorced parents where one is lesbian or gay to use the LDS Church as a pawn in their custody battles - and that is sure to happen when the straight spouse is LDS and, e...
by RagDollSallyUT
07 Nov 2015, 11:02
Forum: History and Doctrine Discussions
Topic: Same sex marriage considered apostasy
Replies: 191
Views: 10062

Re: Same sex marriage considered apostasy

I watched the video and the take home message I got was: 1-We don't want to have to send home teachers and visiting teachers into that home. 2-We don't want the child to feel they are expected to be in primary. 3-You are free to think what you want. But don't publicly advocate it or we could excommu...
by RagDollSallyUT
06 Nov 2015, 11:51
Forum: History and Doctrine Discussions
Topic: Same sex marriage considered apostasy
Replies: 191
Views: 10062

Re: Same sex marriage considered apostasy

OH ouch my heart hurts today. I had my issues with the church before but I was trying to hang on to the good stuff. But this is just too much. This is so not inspired. Besides the article of faith.... Ezekiel 18:20 ...The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear t...
by RagDollSallyUT
31 Oct 2014, 02:28
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: C-PTSD as a Cause for Faith Crisis
Replies: 9
Views: 797

C-PTSD as a Cause for Faith Crisis

As many have read before, my faith crisis came about essentially after years of enduring psychological/ emotional abuse from mostly my first marriage, and after priesthood counseling from several different leaders pushed me into staying in that marriage until irreparable damage was done on my life a...
by RagDollSallyUT
15 Sep 2014, 18:31
Forum: Support
Topic: In the news and blaming the victim
Replies: 19
Views: 1623

Re: In the news and blaming the victim

Awesome article! Thanks!
by RagDollSallyUT
15 Sep 2014, 14:43
Forum: Support
Topic: In the news and blaming the victim
Replies: 19
Views: 1623

Re: In the news and blaming the victim

Good thoughts. I am sorting it out and thinking that as well. As a normal person might want to think they are safe because they taught their kids to never sneak out at night (as did I) the church member might also think they are protected because they count their steps and check the boxes. It's stil...
by RagDollSallyUT
14 Sep 2014, 16:25
Forum: Support
Topic: In the news and blaming the victim
Replies: 19
Views: 1623

Re: In the news and blaming the victim

Totally agreed. Trauma counseling vital. But no kidding I am getting crap like, "that's why our prophet teaches against sleepovers!" And "well if you would just teach your kids obedience." Really? There is a Mormon element to this. How do I handle the self righteous?
by RagDollSallyUT
14 Sep 2014, 12:09
Forum: Support
Topic: In the news and blaming the victim
Replies: 19
Views: 1623

In the news and blaming the victim

AAARRRGGGHHHHH!!!!! I can't understand what is wrong with all of these judgmental haters and I don't know how to handle this! Something happened last week to my daughter and it's on the news. Only a very vague statement was made to the media because we need the public's help to get more witnesses to...